I strongly believe that such advices about young naive relationships can be channeled in a way that.. if both parties are growing spiritually together despite being in a relationship, matured enough to handle the consequences, and helping each other out. whats the harm in it? I mean, as christians, I think we can say that you know, you can get into relationships. but it is advised NOT TO because we have to let time do the talking and pray to God if this is the best thing to do, or is it what HE WANTS YOU TO DO? instead of, ohhh! you cannot get yourself involved. its wrong! God says its wrong! you're gonna go to HELL if you do this. la la la.

lets take this in another point of view. imagine a non-Christian. attending a seminar on BGR. you, unconsciously, brain wash the youth about the whole BGR (boy girl relationship). how would the non christial perspect about Christianity? they must be thinking, hmmm. they're trained to become nuns or something. why can't some of these churches do it like my church? where leaders will advise younger ones, in a healthy manner, that it isn't the right time yet. how hard is that? imposing rules will only make them create a blocking wall to hear anything you say anymore. they will judge you by. paranoid.

situations. neither good nor bad. thinking makes it. you do something, which in your policy. is harmless. others, think its bad. why do people ever care what others think? well, sometimes. circumstances. like myself, I don't care about something. about what people say. this person comes along and changes the whole scenario by saying. its wrong! imagine what will people sayyy? you must set a good example. GOD this GOD that. firstly, I know God. and if you want to talk about God, please get your Godly topics and advices straight and right. listen to yourself and ask yourself. is this what God said? or what you said? oh okay. more like, what YOU say, and using GOD"s name to get things YOUR way. tsk tsk tsk. I wonder who's going to hell now. hah. (oh and by the way, talking about a few people that I'm not quite happy about because the people they followed up on becoming a christians, came back to me and complained. plus, other Christians who listened to their speech expressed themselves and lose respect for such). imagine, losing your own dignity.

on a lighter note, I'm off to Singapore, will be back on the 19th. and SAM blogders, SAM results will be out soon. I repeat, super soon. now you know why I have to go Spore wilth mum first before she gets a stroke or something.